Monday, September 7, 2009

It's Ok if He Flirts......

...... but I better not catch him! LOL

Me and some friends were talking the other night, and the flirting subject came up. One of my buddies said, "It's nothing wrong with a man flirting with another man. It's in our nature to do so!" Now with that comment I had to add yeah, I guess, but I certainly better not see it or catch it! I mean it's one thing to flirt, but some folks carry it way to far. I mean like sharing naked pics and so on. See stuff like that, I will never just accept or just be OK with. Some people say it's OK with them, but for me it's a NO! I think it's a thin line between a little flirting here & there, and straight up disrespect! What are your thoughts on this subject? Do you flirt? Is it OK with you, that your man or woman (whatever you have lol) may do it? & is it OK for him or you to share naked pictures with others? I wanna hear some of your opinions.

8 comments:

*DELLA! said...

when you are married, like yourself, even the cuteness of a little flirting should cease hard! its not longer cute when you are in a serious relationship. See flirting is often like a light exploration to see just how friendly a person can be and how far it will go in a normal setting. It reveals a lot about a person soooo soon. So its sort of like appetizers, if you pig out on them, you will have no room for a real meal.

Which would be your man. You done played around with the litte sandwiches n shit. And now you got some splainin' to do as to why you aint touched your dinner. FULL OFF OF NOTHING! YOU ARE GOOD WHERE YOU ARE BABY, DONT LISTEN TO THOSE FOLK.

*DELLA!

Darryl said...

As a single man, flirting is as important as breathing but if I were in a relationship it would definitely have to be talked about. I mean simple innocent flirting can get you far in life but only a few can keep it innocent…I’M NOT ONE OF THEM!!!!! LOL
Darryl

Jeff0418 said...

I dont have an issue with the innocent flirting like the smile here and there etc..but that sharing naked pics will cause more than a small problem in my relationship. Im mean the reality is we all flirt in some kind of way, but that whole exchanging of numbers and all these "new friends" that you all of a sudden have is gonna raise more than a red flag!!..lol

speaking hypothetically said...

lol yeah me and my dude had this issue when we 1st started dating(2yrs ago). I feel like you have to check that early and set boundaries and i totally agree with "i better not catch him"....lmao

thegayte-keeper said...

I don't think flirting is okay...it sends the message that you are interested in a guy and he could have a chance...

Allan said...

Flirting is a natural thing for everyone. But when you willingly become part of a relationship somethings need to stop. I'm with you when you say "If you do it, I better not catch you". I'm like if I catch you we gonna have a problem because not only am I going to put you on blast, I'm gonna give your lil friend that you're flirting with a warning that if I see any messages from them again I'm gonna find them (I have my ways lol) and bust their ass for messing with what belongs to me lol.................how u doin?! lol

.::STELLA*DELLA::. said...

ALLAN YOUR ASS IS RIGHT! THATS WHAT IM TALKIN ABOUT. HAVE SOME RESPECT FOR THE UNION WE HAVE CREATED TOGETHER.

Eduardo Guize said...

Sending naked pics? Yeah, he can do that. Only if I catch him, he will have to look at those pics to remember what he had...

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