Monday, March 2, 2009
Light Skinned Vs. Dark Skinned
OK! I know everyone at some point heard a weird story or two about light skinned vs. dark skinned men or woman before right? Well yesterday I was on yahoo IM ( yes again lol) and I was speaking to a friend of mine about relationships, and so on. And he was like "I like this guy but I don't trust him." And I asked why, and his response was "Oh because he's light skinned." So I'm like is that the only reason? And for the the most part he said yes. So I said, "if he was dark skinned, then you could probably be more relaxed & loosen up a bit" and he said "correct". I was extremely surprised at his answer. Yes I know everyone has their preferences, but damn. I just feel like what makes you think a dark skinned guy wouldn't hurt you vs. a light skinned guy. I mean is it just me or does that just sound crazy to you? He also said light skinned boys think they are all that, and think they can get what they want. I was just totally blown away by this conversation that enough was enough lol. I personally feel that the color of you skin don't define the type of man or woman you are. I also feel that light skinned, and dark skinned males & females are beautiful. I also disagree with his his comment when he says light skinned guys think they can get what they want, because if you look at the pictures I have above, these two guys (in my opinion) are both equally hot! If I wasn't married, they both could get what they wanted from me LMAO!!!! But seriously, people need to not let someone pass them by because of the color of their skin. It's one thing to say your just not into a certain look or what not, but to go as far as putting everyone in the same category because of their skin color or your own personal bad experience is not cool. I think my buddy is being way too judgmental as well as ignorant.