I'm currently reading E. Lynn Harris book title "Basketball Jones." So far it's a really interesting book. I just wanted to ask my readers a question based on the storyline of this book. There is this guy who is dating this professional athlete on the down low. And it's been that way for a long time now. They met in college, and so on. Been together for years. Then all of a sudden the athlete is so called forced to marry a woman to keep his image in tack. The guy stays with the athlete because he loves him, and understands an all that good stuff (I guess). So me, and a buddy was talking about this book at work the other day, and I asked him the same question I wanna ask you guys. Could you do this? Date a man who's married to a woman, who's also an athlete, who gives you any, and everything you want at the expense of you being a secret & doing whatever it is he says. My buddy said he could. I said I COULDN'T!
It's one thing to meet a DL guy, date him, and respect his career/image, and so on. (To be real I wouldn't even put myself in that type of situation. That's just my preference. So if you like it then hey do you.) But to watch him marry some chick, and continue to sleep with him on the side is not going to work for me. At some point where do your morals kick in? So again I ask. Could you do this?...................... Be Some one's "Sideline Ho?"..... and straight people can answer this question too. Could you date a man in this same type of scenario. Would you be his secret lover, because of who he was, and the things he could give you? The same situation apply if it was a woman who was the athlete. (trying not to leave anyone out lmao when it comes to asking this question) ;)
Sing it Monica!!!!!!
Monica - Sideline Ho (Download link)