Monday, October 12, 2009

"How Long Should A Person Wait to Have Sex Once Out of Their Relationship?"

A buddy of mines asked me this question today, and I said "the next second" LMAO!!!!!!! But seriously how long would, or should someone wait? I personally would need time to myself, and need to time heal, and get over somethings before doing all of that lol. But some people say "the best way to get over a man, is to get under another one) LMAO!!!!!!!!

8 comments:

The Voice of DemondMaurice said...

I can respond to this a few ways. So first I will say that I was told that the best way to get over a man is to get under a man......LOLOL.

I will also say that the only reason that its not a good reason to do this is because its an unhealthy attempt to mend an open wound, but if you feel that you can handle it then go for it......

speaking hypothetically said...

Well dang i agree with you Boo totally if i end a relationship with some bitter feelings i would have sex quickly....if it was a good healthy break i would wait.

Reggie said...

Your banner is ssoooooooo cute!!!!!!! I love it! And to answer the question, I think the same about when to have sex when first entering a relationship....when the time is right. :P

Darryl said...

I've been in both situations and it really depends on how the break up went down...call me a whore, I don't care...LOL!!!

Jon said...

Deonte, you're right. When any relationship ends, its a time to reassess, whether it ended amicably or in a bad light. Most relationships end because there is a lack of communication on the part of the couple and they just stop trying or one just decides to end it. Yeah, it might feel nice to get "under" someone, but we need to stop just hopping in bed with anyone. People say...oh well, just use a condom. Ok, fine. But in the process, after you've ran through a bunch of folks, what will you have to show for it? Maybe some soaked-up sheets but that's about it. Considering the fact that many guys cheat on their partners which causes most relationships to fail anyway, sex really needs to be something we all should treat with more seriousness. Call me conservative or whatever...I just know that sex is oftentimes used to mask unhappiness, and that's just a mentality that needs to be broken.

Great topic, as usual.

Noble said...

some ppl cant handle being with ppl back to back but when your mind is on something else you forget about that ass hole ex. so I think a few days should suffice

ZION`OLOGY said...

i co-sign with my bro reggie on ur banner...mad cute and loving the eye contact lenses.:)
i would say when he has fully recovered from he`s past relantionship and is willing to put himself out there again...but he needs to if he still holdin on to some baggage...he`ll have to deal wit that first!!!
zxxx

Acoustic Soul said...

Just a few short hours!

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